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I just HAVE to get this off my chest. Just as I don’t want to be dismissed from living a well rounded life because I am large, I also don’t want to be targeted for pick up …BECAUSE I am large.
I keep getting emails on FACEBOOK from men around the world wanting to be my “FRIEND”. Apparently there are people who troll thru profiles looking for MS. Right. Like this one – “When i read through your profile i was really amazed and motivated to send you an email and show my interest. Waiting to hear from you.” Oh PLLLL-EEEEZE. Read a little further down my profile and you will see that men are not on my diet!
One guy from another country who could only type – BROKEN English must of thought he was a real charmer.”I love fat lady – I wish had fat lady beautiful like you”. See what I mean? Dude – buy a cow.
One guy right here in Houston recently assured me that our age difference would take a back seat to the fact that he loved large women. (He was a young whipper snapper in his 30’s who posed next to a Bently in his profile picture, someone else’s I’m sure!) He was just sure we would hit it off. DELETE!
DELETE, DELETE, DELETE!!!!!!!! Now I know how Anna Nicole felt. Always lauded after for her big– personalities….ehem….Just clearing my throat folks…..
We are all more than our physical appearance. It is only natural to have certain preferences and attractions. Lord knows I have mine. But I am MORE than my weight. And to be singled out for that single feature is annoying, shallow and down right offensive to me.
I am a woman who knows what she wants. I love big and I love deeply. I enjoy life now like never before. I am an artist in the truest sense of the word.
Yes, the truest sense of the word and beyond. I am an artist of life. I create my life through my thoughts, beliefs and deeds. I take full responsibility. I have no one else to blame if some days it seems less attractive or balanced than I would like. And when I am ready I will attract the right partner I deserve to have. Right now – God’s just having fun showing me all the things on the shelf. You know what the merchants say – you break it – you buy it! Well I haven’t even seen a package I would bother lifting off the shelf in the last year. So it’s all good.
I love each and every one of you
Juliana
I am more
Diary of a MAD * FAT * WOMAN..... 
Amen, you are so much more that the size is unseen by those that love you.. I am sure there are men who truely love mad fat women but I think they should also us some fineness., no point in being so blunt about it.
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Oh Wanda -you have had to deal with blunt sooooo long.
Maybe you could start an on line school for tact!….men would never realize it was for them… The ad wouldn’t be blunt enough!
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I am at a lost for words on this one.
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NO WAY!
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Wonderfully said. Being pursued for the novelty of one of your features, whatever that feature may be, is riDICulous.
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Love your blog! I got a message like the one you are talking about myself.. Hello.. did he miss the married part… Makes you wonder how many women fall for that BS.
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Just check their friend list and you will see.
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“buy a cow!’ u crack me up!
loved this post.
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a puppy would have been to small!
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Yep, I’ve received the Don Juan’s broken English/Poland/whatever as well. Wish they’d just be honest and say ‘hey I need a green card’. So shallow and transparent. Well they still have mail order brides, why not??? HA!
They probably can see how wonderful and real you are, that you tell it just like it is…no matter what it is…
Luv,
Le
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People can be real IDIOTS. Do love the “buy a cow comment as well”.
We all know that when someone picks you for a size, hair color, height, gender, whatever………they NEVER see anything real in anyone and don’t even know what they would have to offer. (if anything).
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